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Dating app safety directory

How safe is your dating app?

We checked 67 dating apps against their own safety centres, help pages and news reports: verification, moderation, panic tools, scam detection and how to report a problem. Tap any app for the full review.

Strong 18 apps Moderate 29 apps Basic 20 apps
BadooStrongMainstream/general, large international base (strong Europe/Latin America)BumbleStrongMainstream/general, swipe-based, women-first messagingHingeStrongMainstream/general, algorithm/profile-based, relationship-focusedMatch.comStrongMainstream/general, oldest major platform, relationship-serious demographicHappnModerateMainstream/general, location/proximity-based ("crossed paths")HilyModerateMainstream/general, AI-matching-focused, smaller/mid-tierOkCupidModerateMainstream/general, algorithm/questionnaire-basedPlenty of FishModerateMainstream/general, free-first, broad/older demographicTinderModerateMainstream/general, swipe-based, largest user baseMeetMeBasicHybrid social-discovery/livestreaming, not a pure dating appZooskBasicMainstream/general, behavioral algorithm (SmartPicks)TaimiStrongGeneral LGBTQ+ (explicitly inclusive across the full spectrum)GrindrModerateGay, bi, trans, queer men (largest app in this space)HERModerateLesbian, bisexual, queer women (also nonbinary/trans welcoming)LexModerateQueer women, trans, nonbinary people; text-first personal-ad formatScruffModerateGay, bi, trans men (historically "bear/scruffy" aesthetic, broadly used)GrowlrBasicGay/bi men, bear community specificallyJack'dBasic–ModerateGay/bi men, notably diverse/global user baseCoffee Meets BagelStrongGeneral/curated matching — algorithm-curated daily "Bagels"MuzzStrongReligious — Muslim dating/marriage-focused (halal-oriented)BLKModerateEthnicity-focused — Black singleseHarmonyModerateLong-term/marriage-focused, general populationOurTimeModerateSenior-focused (50+)SilverSinglesModerateSenior-focused (50+), long-term/marriage-orientedThe LeagueModerateElite/invite-only, career-driven professionalsChristian MingleBasicReligious — Christian, long-term/marriage-focusedElite SinglesBasicLong-term/marriage-focused, professional/educated singlesFarmers OnlyBasicRural/agricultural — "country lifestyle" singlesJDateBasicReligious/ethnicity — Jewish dating and marriageRayaBasicElite/invite-only — entertainment/creative/high-profile networking + datingFeeldStrongNon-monogamy/kink-friendly — open relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamyAshley MadisonModerateDiscreet affairs / extramarital datingPureModerateAnonymous/ephemeral, casual/hookupSeekingModerateSugar dating / transactional-arrangement datingAdultFriendFinderBasicCasual/hookup, explicit adult social network with live camsDOWNBasicCasual/hookup — explicit, intent-basedFetLifeBasicNon-monogamy/kink-friendly — BDSM/fetish/kink community (social network, not matching app)OnceBasicCurated/slow dating (comparison point, not casual/hookup by design)AisleStrongManually-vetted dating app for serious relationships, India-specific (Asia)ChispaStrongLatino/Latina-focused mainstream dating (Match Group)ElitePartnerStrongSerious-relationship matchmaking for educated professionals — distinct from "Elite Singles"Facebook DatingStrongMainstream, opt-in dating layer inside Facebook (US-strongest, UK next-largest)MeeticStrongMainstream serious-relationship dating — France's longest-running major dating brandOmiaiStrongMarriage-focused matching app ("konkatsu"), Japan (Asia)PairsStrongLarge-scale matching app, Japan's #1 by claimed match rate (Asia)ParshipStrongSerious-relationship/long-term matchmaking (personality-test-based), German market leaderTrulyMadlyStrongVerified-profile dating app, India-specific (Asia)WooStrongWomen-first dating app, India-specific (Asia)AdopteModerateWomen-initiate-contact mainstream dating, culturally distinctive French conceptAmandaModerateBlind-date/matchmaking app, dominant in South Korea (Asia)BooModeratePersonality/compatibility-based dating and friend-findingFruitzModerateGen Z-focused intent-based dating (French-founded, now international)LovooModerateMainstream social-discovery dating with live-streaming — Germany's top domestically-founded appMomoModerateLocation-based social/dating app, dominant in mainland China (Asia)SalamsModerateMuslim marriage/matrimony-focused appSKOUTModerateSocial discovery / casual dating hybridTantanModerateSwipe-based dating, dominant in mainland China (Asia)The Inner CircleModerateCurated/"exclusive" professional dating (invite/approval-gated)ThursdayModerate"Anti-swipe" app + in-person singles events (UK-founded)WingmanModerateFriend-matchmaking app — friends build/vet your profileInstinctBasicCasual dating / open relationships / ENM, LGBTQ+-inclusiveLavalifeBasicMainstream/general, legacy Canadian-founded dating brandMiCrushBasicLatino-focused dating app, US and pan-Latin-American diaspora (Latin America)PaktorBasicDating/social app, dominant across Southeast Asia (Asia)ParPerfeitoBasicSerious-relationship dating platform, one of Brazil's most-used (Latin America)RSVPBasicMainstream/general — Australia's oldest, largest homegrown dating siteSnackBasicVideo-first, Gen Z-targeted dating ("Tinder meets TikTok")
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How we rate apps

No invented scores. Each rating reflects safety features we could confirm from the app’s own pages or reputable reporting. Anything we could not verify is marked as not publicly disclosed rather than guessed.

Strong

Offers photo or ID verification and safety tools beyond block and report (such as share-my-date, emergency help or message warnings) and documented proactive scam or fake-profile detection or transparency reporting.

Moderate

Some verification or proactive moderation, plus reporting and safety guidance, but missing at least one element of a Strong rating.

Basic

Little beyond block, report and general tips, with no verification or documented proactive moderation that we could confirm.

Two things changed recently. Match Group’s background-check partnership with Garbo (Tinder, Match.com, Plenty of Fish) ended in August 2023, so no Match Group app currently offers live background checks. Spark Networks, owner of Zoosk, EliteSingles, SilverSingles, Christian Mingle and JDate, entered preliminary insolvency in Berlin in January 2026, so those brands’ future is uncertain.

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